Well, it certainly did when he and I were going out. Mind you knowing what I know now I'm not at all sure that wasn't due at least as much to incompetence on both our parts as to The Ineffable (Effing?) Nature Of Poly..

Yes, it's a fairly swift learning curve, I'm finding. Not as easy-going as I was expecting it to be, by any means... but, I think, worthwhile. So far  :)

I find that half the discomfort factor is the agony of watching everyone else make mistakes you'd never dream of going near. When it's not the fact that you just made the same mistake yourself and now have to face up to that, of course ;)

Poly really has taught me a lot about relating and relationships in general, it's been murder sometimes but I wouldn't miss what it's done for me for the world.