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Sun 2003-07-06 12:08
I need to stop playing Solitaire

It's a habit I've formed over the last year or so: if I'm sitting at a computer and trying to have a good idea, or make a design decision, or think about anything that isn't immediately obvious, I'll start a game of Solitaire, just to distract the surface levels of my mind from the immediate problem and allow my subconscious to work on it undisturbed.

This occasionally works, but more often I just waste a lot of time playing Solitaire and don't get anywhere with the other problem. So I've never been convinced that on balance it was a useful habit.

However, I've just sunk to new depths. I started a game of Solitaire, and half way through I realised it was going to be one of those borderline games that doesn't come out easily and isn't obviously impossible, but instead requires a lot of thought. And before I knew what my fingers were doing, they'd clicked over to the GNOME menus and started up another game of Solitaire, to distract me from thinking about the first one.

So I think enough is enough. Anyone got any good tips for breaking strong habits?

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[personal profile] cjwatsonSun 2003-07-06 04:30
Damn you! I read this post and was immediately seized by the irresistible urge to play Freecell, which I haven't suffered from for ages. So I'm afraid I'm no help. :-)
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[identity profile] hilarityallen.livejournal.comSun 2003-07-06 04:35
Not much help here either. Of course, you could have closed the first solitaire window. If you can manage that, then you won't feel quite so bad.
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[identity profile] ewx.livejournal.comSun 2003-07-06 05:20
Uninstall the solitaire program.
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[identity profile] angoel.livejournal.comSun 2003-07-06 05:34
Recompile the solitaire program so that one time in ten, it runs 'rm -rf /' as root. That'll make you a little more wary of playing it.
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[identity profile] keirf.livejournal.comSun 2003-07-06 05:51
Shock aversion therapy.
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[identity profile] sphyg.livejournal.comSun 2003-07-06 06:39
Ditto Minesweeper. I accidentally broke it yesterday, which has at least stopped me playing it.
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[personal profile] lnrSun 2003-07-06 06:42
S'funny, Simon mentioning Solitaire had me playing minesweeper this morning. I stopped after I equalled my current high score and then beat it in the space of about 10 minutes. Bloody dangerous game. Down to 34 seconds on intermediate. I *know* I can do better than that. I just have to resist trying.
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[personal profile] lnrSun 2003-07-06 06:58
Argh, 33, must stop.
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[personal profile] simontMon 2003-07-07 01:11
Funny you should mention Minesweeper; a guy I've bought software off in the past sent me an email this morning announcing his new opus, Minesweeper 3D. Be afraid...
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[personal profile] lnrMon 2003-07-07 15:39
Oh dear. Oh very dear. I am hooked on the demo alone.
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[identity profile] vyvyan.livejournal.comSun 2003-07-06 08:52
I play Spider Solitaire a lot too. I play it pretty much on autopilot, though; I don't feel I'm likely to improve my technique any more, so restarting difficult games is basically just a way to try out options which are on average suboptimal, but might be better in this particular game.

Way to break the habit? Play something else instead, like nethack or angband :-) Or perhaps, try forcing yourself to play it for longer than you actually want to, or when you have something else you'd much rather do - as a sort of aversion therapy? I don't know really. For me, these sorts of avoidance behaviour only really occur when I feel unmotivated generally anyway; when I feel positive and motivated about life as a whole, I don't feel the desire for displacement activities.
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[identity profile] damerell.livejournal.comMon 2003-07-07 16:46
NetHack is an excellent suggestion, it won't consume your entire life.
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[personal profile] sparrowsionMon 2003-07-07 04:27
I've become terribly addicted to Net. To the extent that I'm seeing it/playing it in my head when falling asleep (or trying to). This is bad.
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[personal profile] simontMon 2003-07-07 04:32
Yes, I liked that game a lot too; but I never quite have the energy to start up a browser window with all that heavyweight Flash. I occasionally wonder whether I should hack together a local version in the astonishingly easy-to-use PyGTK framework (I've done this before for simple web games I liked), but perhaps I shouldn't because it would only end up wasting my time even more :-)
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[identity profile] j4.livejournal.comMon 2003-07-07 09:54
I made a New Year's Resolution to spend no more than 15 minutes playing minesweeper on the Palm, because I was horribly addicted to that. I started playing Solitaire instead. Then got addicted to playing Solitaire. Hmmm. I think I may have to actually delete both games -- I can always get them from somebody else if I want them back, but deleting them might help me make the mental break.

I feel like I should be suggesting (or doing!) something worthy like "go for a run instead" to clear the mental fog, but I've not actually found anything that really helps. So, er, this is more a sympathy and "m3 t00" post than advice, sorry.
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[identity profile] hilarityallen.livejournal.comTue 2003-07-08 06:29
Thinking about it, the slightly obsessive streak that makes one lock into a habit is precisely the same streak that makes most of us good at what we do. This doesn't help break the habit, though. There aren't solitare self-help groups out there, though. It isn't inherently a destructive behaviour, so you're unlikely to get rid of it in a hurry. Sorry. I'm terribly addictable too. Fortunately I don't have Spider Solitaire on my machine, otherwise my D.Phil. would stand less of a chance than it does already.
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