I have a Shiny Insight that mobbsy and me came up with about this sort of thing that I really must destruct-test against your attitudes some day :) In short I think there are different _ways_ of doing the kinds of Good Stuff exchange that happens in relationships and I'm not certain I was over-competent at the ones that don't leave other people drained..
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mobbsy and me came up with about this sort of thing that I really must destruct-test against your attitudes some day :) In short I think there are different _ways_ of doing the kinds of Good Stuff exchange that happens in relationships and I'm not certain I was over-competent at the ones that don't leave other people drained..