Yeah. If it feels like people are assuming something automatically, it feels like it must be really obvious. Else wouldn't they have considered it a bit more carefully? Rather than being the first idea to come to mind and not re-examined (which is understandable, you can't examine *everything* in detail, but unhelpful).
And I find my major frustrations (rather than, say, true pain, of which I have little) is the clash between those assumptions...
But this always makes me annoyed at the delivery people, rather than the dating. Which generally involves someone I care enough about that the emotions are serious, good or bad, but not frustrating... :)
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And I find my major frustrations (rather than, say, true pain, of which I have little) is the clash between those assumptions...
But this always makes me annoyed at the delivery people, rather than the dating. Which generally involves someone I care enough about that the emotions are serious, good or bad, but not frustrating... :)