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The room I work in is accessed through a pair of double doors.
Whenever I am approaching the doors from one direction and someone else is approaching it from the other, what almost invariably happens is that whoever gets there first opens one of the doors, then either stops and holds it for the other person to go through, or holds it for the other person after they've gone through. Always, there is a politeness-door-holding moment, and someone stops and waits until the other person has gone through whichever door was opened. This is exactly identical to what would have happened if there had only been a single door.
But there isn't only a single door. These are double doors, the whole point of which (you would think) is that the opening is wide enough for two people to go through simultaneously without getting in each other's way.
What's with this? Holding the door is utterly instinctive in this circumstance – once or twice I've deliberately ignored the other person and opened the other door so we can both go through without either of us having to stop and wait, and it felt horribly unnatural and rude.
I suppose it's vaguely possible that the effort of pulling a heavy door open might be deemed worse than the delay of waiting for someone else to go through, so that having both people go through the same door works out more efficient; but in that case, why build the double doors in the first place if they were never going to be used?
It's weird. Someone has wasted a lot of time and effort, but I can't work out whether it's the people who built the double doors or the people who keep stopping and waiting for each other when it's unnecessary.
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----------- | --------++-------- | -----------As such, everyone just pushes the door on their left, because it's so much more convenient than doing anything else. The only trickiness is to avoid clouting anyone with the door when you let go of it.
Incidentally, there are still uses for double doors, such as moving furniture, and having a group of very serious people in dark glasses stride in in parallel.
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As for the door thing, probably years of social programming about what's polite & right to do makes it very hard for people not to stop & hold it open. Also, like you said, laziness probably plays a little part too ;-)
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(I'm usually pretty good at remembering people, so if this turns out to be an unforgivable lapse on my part then be assured I will kick myself for a week.)
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If you are Simon T then I have met you several times, including Laura's Halloween party last year, Dr. D's b'day party & at the pub. Unless there are two Simon Ts (which there may well be).
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Since I got Broadband I've tried to locate people I know's LJs - it's mostly worked but got you (& a girl I thought was someone else from Bicon & pub) mixed up (Blush)
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They don't really look very alike in real life apart from reddish-blondish hair and wearing glasses.
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It would be interesting to see how people behaved if they were both hinged to open clockwise or anticlockwise.
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It's something I've carried into later life. I wouldn't be able to shake it if I tried.
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