I think more than moderate pleasure is in order. Well done.

My house and car were vandalised (broken windows, etc) as part of a mini-campaign of nastiness against me a few months ago. I still look over my shoulder as I get out of my car on my driveway in my street every single time I park at my house... waiting for something bad to happen.

It's no longer my home. Just my house.

So for you to have moved on a stage in your own 'dealing with it' is very, very good. Virtual back-patting is called for...

Regards,
Denny